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Leaving the UK & Travels in Canada & the US

Three blogs about leaving the UK and travelling in Canada & the US in 2018 that I originally posted on Facebook notes.... Goodbye Canterbury (September) After nearly 40 years as a resident of the UK I am emigrating to Australia. My predominant feeling is one of excitement, as I am looking forward to the challenges ahead. I am also feeling sad to be moving so far away from my family and friends. The last 8 years of working and living in Canterbury have been a fantastic time in my life and somewhere I have felt truly happy, valued and content. It is the place where I met my wonderful wife Katherine and our beautiful daughter Frankie was born and will always hold so many treasured memories. As a tennis coach of over 20 years I have worked in lots of different places and in several different teams. Polo Farm Sports Club has proved the most innovative and community centred place I have worked at. It is amazing to think how much the facilities and the tennis programme have evolved in the...

Christmas blogs 2018 & 2019

A couple of Christmas blogs I originally posted on Facebook notes.... Christmas blog 2018: Festive Greetings from Brisbane  I have now been an Australian resident for seven weeks, and experiencing a very different festive build-up to what I am use to in the UK! 39 degrees Celsius yesterday! I feel for the Aussie department store Santa’s!! Katherine’s parents are kindly hosting us in Brisbane as we search for work. Frankie is now 21 months and really enjoying having so many family to entertain her. She has been: charging around the house and garden with her 3 year old cousin Winter; ‘helping’ her Po Po (granny) in the kitchen; spending lots of time in the garden with her Gung Gung (grandad); and learning the Auntie Carol ‘happy birthday’ hand washing technique! Most of my time has been spent getting my personal and work paperwork in place. I was most amused when my new bank card came through and they had me down as Miss D. Prior!!! I have been working through a process to convert my...

Goodbye Dad, You’re an Inspiration

On 31st January 2021, my dad passed away at the age of 82. He was diagnosed with stage four cancer a few months before and had been undergoing chemotherapy. He passed away at the family home in Lawford with my mum and brother supporting him. I had last spoken to him a few days before on a video call. The last time I had seen him in person was in September 2018 on the day we left the UK to emigrate to Australia. I am a big believer in the value of reading and learning and I arrive at this difficult moment, mentally and emotionally in the strongest place I have been in my 42 years of life. I first read Stephen Covey’s seven habits book in 2011 and it was the first book that really got me thinking about how I want to live my life and what values and principles were important to me. One exercise in the book was to think about a person in my life who inspires me and embodies the type of person I want to be like. My dad was the first person that came into my head. My dad had a challenging ch...